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April 29th, 2016
Episode 510 of 769 episodes
Time for Fan Mail Fridays, where we'll be answering your questions and dropping some knowledge and feedback to help you kick the weekend off right. In this episode: Your overall confidence is low and your desperation rises as you seek a new job in a new town with no luck yet -- and any hope of dating seems to be following the same pattern. What do you do? You're in your twenties and it's the first long-term relationship for both of you. Hesitation over a proposal leads to a breakup, though you stay in touch and hope remains that things might still work out between you. Is it okay if you don't have everything figured out yet? How do you show your older siblings you've come a long way since you were the "dumb" kid in the family? You got drunk to counter the anxiety you feel in social situations and said some things to your friends for which you may never be forgiven. How do you approach them to express regret and try to make things right (while cutting back on the drinking so this doesn't become a common occurance)? Are women more attracted to guys who are taken? And if so, why? How do you decide whether or not the virginity you've always been proud of maintaining is worth holding until marriage? We all process through emotional filters and assign meaning to things that don't always warrant them. Jordan demonstrates how this works in his latest video. Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at [email protected]! Show notes at http://theartofcharm.com/podcast-episodes/fan-mail-friday-60-scent-of-single/ HELP US SPREAD THE WORD! If you dig the show, please subscribe in iTunes and write us a review! This is what helps us stand out from the crowd and help people find the credible advice they need. Review the show in iTunes! We rely on it! http://www.theartofcharm.com/mobilereview Stay Charming!